Party of 4!

Party of 4!

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

My Bachelor thoughts...

So... I'm not sure I'm totally hooked on this season.  But it is like a train wreck that you just can't stop watching!  If you are watching I'm sure you totally understand what I'm talking about.


I have been sick that last few days with a terrible cold/flu so I have had too much time on my hands to read the ridiculous blogs on Ben the Bachelor... I know, silly, but totally entertaining!


And after yesterdays episode I have decided that I'm rooting for LOVE this season... I don't think Ben will choose one of my top favs, but I do hope whomever he chooses that they find love.


If you missed yesterdays episode let me recap for you....  here are the top moments of the night!


1. Great one on one date with Lindzi C.  (she is one of my favs.)
2. Crazy unreal group date skiing down a closed street in San Francisco (who goings skiing in a bikini... ridiculous!!!)
3. The reappearance of Shawntel at the cocktail party... come one... I think they are just trying to create more drama!  Totally unneeded.
4. The fainting of Erika during the rose ceremony... Well since they make the ladies stay up till wee hours in the morning, drinking, and high emotional stress... what else do they expect!  
5. Finally the elimination of Erika, Jaclyn, Shawntel and Brittany (She left after the group date)




Anyways... I think this will be my last post on Bachelor Ben...  Nothing else to say about this crazy season!

Monday, January 9, 2012

A Prayerful Wife.

31 Days of Praying for Your Husband


I found this on Pintrest and LOVE it!  Won't you all join me in a prayerful 31 days for our hubbies... or future hubbies?  Happy Monday!


Bless your husband by praying for him! The Apostle Paul instructed all Christians to pray for one another (Ephesians 6:18). This includes wives’ responsibility and privilege to pray for their husbands. Earnest prayer for your husband is good for him, for you and the spiritual health of your home (Proverbs 31:11-12).

Satan desires to destroy your husband, especially his character and his leadership in your relationship. Trust God through prayer as you daily surrender your husband and marriage to the Lord’s wise, loving care.

Day 1 Pray that your husband will grow spiritually and consider his accountability before the Lord. Pray that he will guard his heart by developing spiritual disciplines—Bible reading and study, prayer, meditation, scripture memorization, etc. (2 Peter 3:18; Prov. 4:23)

Day 2 Pray that your husband’s relationship with God and His Word will bear fruit in his life. Pray that he will be a man of wisdom and understanding, fearing the Lord. (Prov. 3:7, 9:10; Ps. 112:1)

Day 3 Pray that your husband will be humble and quick to agree with God about his sin. Pray that his heart will be tender toward the voice of the Lord. (Ps. 51:2-4; Micah 6:8)

Day 4 Pray that your husband will grow in leadership skills in your relationship—protecting and providing for you. Pray that he will lead you wisely and love you sacrificially, so that God will be glorified in your marriage. (Eph. 5:25-29; Col. 3:19)

Day 5 Pray that your husband will be faithful to his wedding vows. Pray that he will have a desire to cultivate your relationship as a sign of his loyalty and commitment to you, and as a picture of Christ’s love for the Church. (Prov. 20:6; Gen. 2:24)

Day 6 Pray that your husband will love righteousness and hate wickedness, especially the evils of the culture. Pray that he will recognize and avoid wickedness in his own life, and if necessary, take a clear, strong stand against evil. (Prov. 27:12; John 17:15; 1 Cor. 10:12-13)

Day 7 Pray that your husband will safeguard his heart against inappropriate relationships with the opposite sex. Pray that his heart will be pure and undivided in his commitment to you. (Prov. 6:23-24, 26; Rom. 13:14)

Day 8 Pray that your husband will work hard to provide for your family, to the best of his ability. Pray that the character qualities necessary for a successful career and ministry will be a growing part of his character—persistence, decisiveness, strength, an analytical mind, organizational skills, positive relationships with people, determination, etc. (Rom. 12:11; 1 Cor. 15:58)

Day 9 Pray that your husband handle finances wisely, will have discernment concerning budgeting and investments, and will be a good steward of his money in regard to giving to the Lord’s work. Pray that money will not become a source of discord in your family. (Prov. 23:4-5; Rom. 12:13; Heb. 13:5)

Day 10 Pray that your husband will cultivate strong integrity, and not compromise his convictions. Pray that his testimony will be genuine, that he will be honest in his business dealings, and will never do anything that he needs to hide from others. (Prov. 20:7; 1 Tim. 1:5, 3:7; Eph. 6:10-12)

Day 11 Pray that your husband will have a humble, teachable spirit and a servant’s heart before the Lord. Pray that he will listen to God and desire to do His will. (Prov. 15:33; Eph. 6:6)

Day 12 Pray that your husband will yield his sexual drive to the Lord and practice self control. Pray that your sexual intimacy together will be fresh, positive, and a reflection of selfless love. (Prov. 5:15, 18; 1 Cor. 7:3; Song of Solomon 7:10)

Day 13 Pray that your husband use practical skills to build your family and make wise decisions for your welfare. Pray that he will serve unselfishly. (Gal. 5:13; Phil. 2:3-4)

Day 14 Pray that your husband will speak words that build you and your family, and reflect a heart of love. Pray that he will not use filthy language. (Prov. 18:21; Eph. 4:29)

Day 15 Pray that your husband will choose his friends wisely. Pray that God will bring him men who will encourage his accountability before God, and will not lead him into sin. (Prov. 13:20; Prov. 27:17)

Day 16 Pray that your husband will choose healthy, God-honoring activities. Pray that he will not live in bondage to any questionable habits or hobbies, but that he will experience freedom in holiness as he yields to the Spirit’s control. (1 Cor. 6:12, 10:31; 2 Tim. 2:4)

Day 17 Pray that your husband will enjoy his manliness as he patterns his life after Christ and strong men in the faith. Pray for his physical, emotional, mental, social and spiritual strength. (Eph. 3:16; 1 Peter 2:21; 1 Cor. 10:11)

Day 18 Pray that your husband will have an eternal perspective—living in light of eternity. Pray that he will reject materialism and temporal values and put God first in his life. (Matt. 6:33; Deut. 6:5; Eph. 5:16; Ps. 90:12)

Day 19 Pray that your husband will be patient and a man of peace. Pray that he will not give in to anger, but will allow the Holy Spirit to control his responses. (Rom. 14:19; Ps. 34:14)

Day 20 Pray that your husband will yield his mind and thoughts to the Lord. Pray that he will not entertain immoral or impure thoughts, and that he will resist the temptation to indulge in pornography. (Prov. 27:12; 2 Cor. 10:5)

Day 21 Pray that your husband will learn how to relax in the Lord and, in his greatest times of stress, find joy and peace in his relationship with God. Pray that he will submit his schedule to the Lord. (Neh. 8:10; Prov. 17:22; Ps. 16:11)

Day 22 Pray that your husband will practice forgiveness in your relationship and with others. Pray that he will recognize any roots of bitterness, and yield any resentment and unforgiving attitudes to the Lord. (Eph. 4:32; Heb. 12:15)

Day 23 Pray that your husband will be a good father—disciplining his children wisely and loving them unconditionally. If he is not a father, pray that he will find a young man to mentor in the things of the Lord. (Eph. 6:4; Col. 3:21; 2 Tim. 2:1-2)

Day 24 Pray that your husband will have a balanced life—that he will balance work and play. Pray that he will fear God, but also gain favor with people he knows at work and church. (Luke 2:52; Prov. 13:15)

Day 25 Pray that your husband will be courageous in his stand against evil and injustice, and that he will stand for the truth. Pray that he will protect you and your family from Satan’s attacks. (Ps. 31:24; Eph. 6:13; Ps. 27:14)

Day 26 Pray that your husband will discover and live his God-given purpose. Pray that he will offer all his dreams to the Lord, and pursue only those goals that will bring God glory and count for eternity. (Jer. 29:11; 1 Cor. 10:31)

Day 27 Pray that your husband will understand the importance of taking care of his body—the temple of the Holy Spirit—for the glory of God. Pray that he will practice self-control by making wise food choices, and get sufficient exercise to stay healthy. (Rom. 12:1-2; 1 Cor. 6:19-20, 9:27)

Day 28 Pray that your husband will be a man of prayer. Pray that he will seek and pursue God in purposeful quiet times. (1 Thess. 5:17; Luke 22:46; James 5:16)

Day 29 Pray that your husband will surrender his time and talents to the Lord. Pray that his spiritual gifts will be manifest in his career, at church, and in your home. (Eph. 5:15-16; 1 Cor. 12:4, 7)

Day 30 Pray that your husband will serve God and others with pure motives. Pray that he will obey the Lord from his heart, and glorify Him in everything. (1 Cor. 10:13; John 7:17-18; Col. 3:23-24)

Day 31 Pray that your husband will recognize the lies of the Enemy in his life. Pray that his attitudes and actions will be guided by the truth as he brings his thoughts into captivity to the Word of God. (John 8:44; 2 Cor. 10:4-5

Monday, January 2, 2012

My Bachelor Top Picks

It is Bachelor Time!!!!  Get excited!!! After watching the show tonight I thought it would be fun to blog about my top picks and thoughts on the show... and I would love to hear feedback from you all as well!


So... here are my top 5 picks!!!

1. ***
Lindzi C. - Business Development Manager who lives in Washington 
(Gal that rode in on the horse and received the 1st impression rose)


2.
Brittney - Medical Sales Rep from Colorado
(Gal that brought her Grandmother)

3. 
Jenna - NYC Blogger
(even after her very emotional 1st night... I believe she will calm down and get her head on straight... at least I'm hoping for the best for her!)

4. 
Kacie - Administrative Assistant from Tennessee
(Girl with my favorite dress - the strapless/short sparkly one)
  
5. 
Nicki - Dental Hygienist from Texas
(Gal that is divorced)

So.... who are your top picks?  What do you think of Ben?  How do you think the season is going to go?

And I have to comment on the preview of the season... WOW... there is going to be a lot of DRAMA!  I will say that I heard an interview of Ben a few weeks ago and he said it ended very differently than he expected... not sure what that means, but I am hooked!  I will be on my sofa every Monday evening watching the drama unfold... I know call me a sucker and hopeless romantic, but it is a tradition I just can't seem to get away from!  Hope you all will join me in the craziness this Bachelor season will deliver!

***My favorite gal... I think she will go all the way!!!!

More Bachelor babble next week!!!  Happy Monday!

2011 Year in Review

2011 was filled with many first.  Here is a quick recap of our 2011 adventure!

We celebrated Mommom's birthday!

Celebrated Jennifer at one of her bridal showers!

My big sister got married!!!!


We hosted our 1st Annual Ingram Crawfish Boil!

Enjoyed a girls shopping trip to San Marcos.

I caught my first fish!!!

Celebrated Poppop's birthday in Maryland.

I rode on my first scooter!!!

Enjoyed a relaxing vaca in South Padre with The Ingrams.



Corny Dogs and beer at the Texas State Fair... doesn't get better than that!

I attended my 1st Aggie game at Kyle Field!

Our trip to the Grand Canyon!

Celebrated Thanksgiving with the Overbeck family!

Sent out our first Ingram Family Christmas Card!

Hosted our Annual Christmas Ornament Exchange Party!!!

Celebrated our One Year Anniversary!

Enjoyed Christmas with The Ingram Family in Dallas.

Celebrated Jay's 29th Birthday in Dallas!!

Enjoyed family time with the Overbeck side over Christmas!

Rooted on the Aggies at the Texas Bowl and were thrilled with their win!

We definitely enjoyed a fun filled and wonderful year and look forward to the many things to come in 2012!!!  

We wish you a wonderful and fantastic 2012!  Happy New years!!!

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Celebrating Marriage!

As I writing this blog tonight and look at the clock... I think about where I was a year ago today... I was most likely dancing the night away with my new Husband and celebrating with our closets friends and family!  Maybe cutting the cake or tossing the bouquet.  I can't believe how fast the last 365 days have gone by.  It seems like just a few weeks ago we arrived back from our amazing honeymoon in Maui... and that last week we hosted our 1st Crawfish Boil, or that yesterday we saw the Grand Canyon.

As we celebrated our 1st Anniversary this weekend we found ourselves looking back on the many memories and adventures we shared together.  Those precious stories all point to one thing... we are so incredibly blessed!  As we left church today we decided to make a conscious effort to keep the mindset of thankfulness.  It is natural to be thankful during the Holiday Season... but as we shared favorite stories from the year it was so clear how thankful we truly are.  Blessed by our jobs, our family, our friends, our church, our community, our country... and the list goes on.  So as we recognize how the Lord has blessed us, our prayer is that we would pass those blessing on through us... in our jobs, in our families, our friends, our church, our community, our country... and so on.  And as we are in the season of celebrating Marriage I thought I would share this special note that I found while going through wedding cards we received a year ago.

Marriage Is...
A commitment.  Its success doesn't depend on circumstances, feelings, or moods - but on two people who are loyal to each other and the vows they took on their wedding day...

Marriage Is...
A relationship where two people must listen, compromise, and respect.  It's a arrangement that requires a multitude of decisions to be made together.  Listening, respecting, and compromising go a long way towards keeping peace and harmony.

A union in which two people learn from their mistakes, accept each other's flatus, and willingly adjust behaviors that need to be changed.  It's caring enough about each other to work through disappointing and hurtful times and believing in the love that brought you together in the first place.

Patience and forgiveness.  It's being open and hones, thoughtful and kind.  Marriage means talking things out, making necessary changes, and forgiving each other.  It's unconditional love at its most understanding and vulnerable - love that supports, comforts, and is determined to triumph over every challenge and adversity.

Marriage is a partnership of two unique people who bring out the very best in each other and who know that even though they are wonderful as individuals... they are even better together.

- Barbara Cage

And a few photos from our weekend celebrating 1 year!!!

Dinner at Flemming's!

Jay arranged for flowers and a replica of our cake to be at the table when we arrived!

So full... amazing dinner at Flemming's!

When we arrived home Saturday afternoon we had this waiting for us!
My mom had the florist make an arrangement from our reception, a 2010 bottle of wine and the original top layer of our cake!

As tradition says... we ate our cake and it was actually really good! 

Then we had a piece of the replica and it was better!



Many Blessings to you and yours!

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Photo Booth Fun!

This weekend we hosted our 2nd Annual Ornament Exchange Christmas Party and this year we added a new fun festive activity with a Photo Booth.  I found the idea on Pinterest, just like all the other creative things I have done lately, and it was a huge hit!  Here are a few photos from the booth!





via Pinterest (Printable Christmas Props for Photo Booth).

Thursday, December 1, 2011

It's December!

December has finally arrived and I couldn't be more excited!  I love this time of year and am so looking forward to the next few weeks of Christmas Festivities and parties we have coming up.


I wish you a very merry 25 days leading up to Christmas and challenge all of us to take special time to pause in our busyness and remember, celebrate and praise the true reason for this beautiful season!  The birth of baby Jesus!

And the angel answered her, "The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy-the Son of God.
Luke 1:35

Happy December 1st!